The Four to One Rule

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When upset, it's easy to believe we're completely in the right and the other person is completely in the wrong.

However, the odds are 4 to 1 against it, especially in conflicts with friends, coworkers and family members. See the possibilities on the wallpaper and below.

Either:

• You are 100% right, they are 100% wrong.
• They are 100% right, you are 100% wrong.
• You are both partly right and partly wrong.
• You are both right.
• You are both wrong. (this is my favorite! lol)

So whenever you're in conflict, remember,

the odds are 4 to 1 against

you being the only one in the right.

- Lollie